Ukwanda · izifundo 7
Uhlu lokufinyelela nokuvangela ngobudlelwano
Ukwakha nokusebenzisa uhlu, ukunqoba amahloni
Umakhelwane ongamemanga muntu
UBongani wayehlala eduze kwebandla iminyaka engu-12. Wayezwa ukudumisa ngeSonto ngalinye ngefasitela. Akekho ilungu elamemayo. Ngelinye ilanga, iQembu Elincane elisha lavulwa emphakathini. Umholi, uRenan, wangqongqoza emnyango kaBongani ukuze azethule. Baxoxa. UBongani waxoxa ukuthi wayecindezelekile kusukela ehlukanisile. URenan akazange ashumayele -- walalela. Ngesonto elilandelayo, wamema eQenjini Elincane: 'Awudingi ukukholwa lutho. Yiza nje uzophuza ikhofi nathi.' UBongani wahamba. Ezinyangeni ezintathu, wanikela ukuphila kwakhe kuKristu. Okwakuntuleka kwakungeyona imininingwane -- kwakubudlelwano.
Ukuvangela ngobudlelwano ukwabelana ngoKristu ngobudlelwano bangempela, hhayi ngezindlela ezingenakho ukukhetheka. Akuyona ukusakaza amaphepha (yize kunokubaluleka kwakho). Ukuphila ivangeli ngokusondela kangaka abantu bafune ukwazi kungani uhlukile.
Uhlu lokufinyelela yithuluzi elisebenzayo: uhlu lwamagama a-5-10 abantu osuvele ubazi futhi abangekazukuba nobudlelwano noKristu. Abantu ozobathandazela, oxhumana nabo futhi ozobamema -- ngesikhathi esifanele, ngendlela yemvelo.
UJesu akashongo 'memezani ukukhanya' -- wathi 'makukhanye'. Ukukhanya akumemezi. Ukukhanya kukhanyisa ngokuba khona. Ukuvangela ngobudlelwano ukuba wukukhanya lapho ukhona: emsebenzini, emzini, ejimini, esikoleni sezingane.
Lokhu akusho ukungakhulumi neze. Kusho ukuthi indlela yokuphila ikhuluma kuqala -- futhi lapho bebuza, ukulungele ukunikeza isizathu sethemba lakho (1 Petru 3:15). Ukuphila kuza ngaphambi kwezindebe.
UPetru ucabanga izinto ezimbili: (1) ukuphila kwakho kuphakamisa imibuzo -- ngoba kuhlukile ngokubonakalayo; (2) uyazi ukuphendula -- hhayi ngethiyoloji enzima, kodwa ngobufakazi obulula.
AmaKristu amaningi akavangeli ngezizathu ezimbili: ukwesaba ukwaliwa nokungazi ukuthini. Ukuvangela ngobudlelwano kulungisa kokubili: lapho kunobudlelwano, ukwesaba kuyancipha. Futhi lapho bebuza, xoxa nje ngokuthi uJesu wenzeni empilweni yakho -- awudingi inhlakanipho yefilosofi.
Indlela yokwakha nokusebenzisa uhlu lakho lokufinyelela Bonisa
Isinyathelo 1 -- Bhala: Bhala amagama a-5-10 abantu osuvele ubazi abangenabo ubudlelwano noKristu. Omakhelwane, abalingane, izihlobo, abangane bakudala.
Isinyathelo 2 -- Thandaza: Thandazela lawo magama nsuku zonke. Cela uNkulunkulu avule izinhliziyo adale amathuba.
Isinyathelo 3 -- Tshala: Sondela ngenhloso. Mema ekhofini, nikeza usizo, yiba khona ezikhathini zokuswela. Yakha amabhuloho.
Isinyathelo 4 -- Mema: Ngesikhathi esifanele, mema eQenjini Elincane, emcimbini webandla, noma engxoxweni ngokholo. Ngaphandle kokucindezela. 'Uma uthanda, woza nami. Awuphoqwanga.'
Isinyathelo 5 -- Yabelana: Lapho umnyango uvuleka, xoxa ngobufakazi bakho. Wawunjani ngaphambi kukaKristu, wahlangana kanjani noKristu, kwashintsha kanjani. Lula kanjalo.
Isinyathelo 6 -- Hamba naye: Uma umuntu emukela isimemo sikaKristu, ungamshiyi. Hamba naye. Mfake eQenjini Elincane. Qala ukumfundisa.
Iphuzu elibalulekile: akuzona zonke izinkulungwane ohlwini ozoguquka. Futhi kulungile. Indima yakho ukutshala nokuchelela -- uNkulunkulu ukhulisa (1 Korinte 3:6).
UPawulu uyala: ukuhlakanipha nabangaphandle, amathuba asetshenziswa, ukukhuluma okumnandi 'okuhlobise ngosawoti' (okunika ukunambitheka futhi kwenze umomoya). Ukuvangela ngobudlelwano akuhlaseli, kodwa kungenhloso. Akungeni ngenkani, kodwa akuzifihli.
Ukunqoba amahloni akuyona ukuba umuntu ojwayele abantu. Ukuthanda abantu ngaphezu kokwesaba ukwaliwa. Lapho uthando lomakhelwane lwedlula ukwesaba, isibindi siyavela.
“Isisekelo nesu elikhulu lokwenza abafundi yisenzo sokufunda ukuthanda umakhelwane wakho njengoba uKristu esithanda.”
Yima ucabange
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Bangaki abantu abangamazi uKristu ohlala nabo njalo? Uma bembalwa, ungase uphile ebhabalazini lamakholwa.
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Yini ekuvimbela ukumema othile eQenjini Elincane noma ebandleni? Ukwesaba? Amahloni? Ubuvila?
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Uma othile ebheka impilo yakho engazi ukuthi ungumKristu, ubezobona okwehlukile?
Kuleli sonto
Yenza uhlu lwakho lokufinyelela manje: bhala amagama amahlanu abantu ofuna ukubabone bazi uJesu. Lifake endaweni ebonakalayo (isibuko, ucingo). Thandazela lawo magama nsuku zonke kuleli sonto. Khetha elinye lamagama bese wenza isenzo sokusondela: umlayezo, isimemo sekhofi, isiphakamiso sosizo. Yabelana ngohlu lwakho neQembu Elincane nithandaze ndawonye ngalawo magama.
Ukuze sivale
“Nkosi, nginike amehlo okubona abalahlekile abangizungezile nesibindi sokusondela. Susa kimi ukwesaba ukwaliwa utshale uthando oledlula noma yikuphi ukungakhululeki. Ukuphila kwami makuhluke kangaka kuze kuphakamise imibuzo -- futhi mangikwazi ukuphendula ngomusa. Ngisebenzise ukufinyelela labo obabizayo. Egameni likaJesu, amen.”
Komfundisi
Inhloso
Ukuhlomisa umholi ngethuluzi lohlu lokufinyelela nezimiso zokuvangela ngobudlelwano -- ukunqoba amahloni, ukwakha amabhuloho nokusebenzisa amathuba ngenhloso.
Imibuzo enzima
- Ngingumuntu ongathandi abantu. Ngivangela kanjani? Ukuvangela ngobudlelwano kufaneleke kakhulu kubathulayo -- ngumuntu nomuntu, ikhofi, ingxoxo ejulile. Awudingi ukushumayela ezixukwini. Udinga ukuthanda umuntu oyedwa ngesikhathi.
- Kuthiwani uma umuntu ethukuthela lapho ngikhuluma ngoJesu? Hlonipha. Ungaphikeleli ngesikhathi esingafanele. Kodwa yazi: abantu abaningi abathukutheli lapho kunobudlelwano nenhlonipho. Inkinga yindlela engena ngenkani ngaphandle kobudlelwano, hhayi ivangeli ngokwalo.
- Ukuvangela ngumthwalo wawo wonke amaKristu noma onesiphiwo kuphela? Wonke amaKristu angofakazi (IzEnzo 1:8). Akuzona zonke izivangeli (Efesu 4:11), kodwa wonke angaxoxa ngokuthi uJesu wenzeni. Isiphiwo sikhulisa, kodwa ukulalela kungokwabo bonke.
- Umndeni/abangane bami bayazi ukuthi ngingumKristu futhi abafuni ukuzwa. Ungayeki. Qhubeka uphila ngobuqotho. Thandaza ngokuphikelela. Ukukhonvertwa okuningi kuthatha iminyaka yokutshala. Ukuphila kwakho kukhuluma ngesikhathi amazwi elindele isikhathi esifanele.
Amacebiso angokoqobo
- Yenza ukusebenza ngohlelo ngqo: cela ukuthi ngamunye abhale amagama akhe amahlanu khona manje. Ngemuva, thandazani ndawonye ngawo wonke amahlu.
- Fundisa ukuxoxa ngobufakazi ngemizuzu emi-3: ngaphambi kukaKristu, ngazana kanjani noKristu, ngemuva kukaKristu. Zihloleni eqenjini.
- Cela inselelo eqenjini: 'Kuleli sonto, ngamunye umeme umuntu ohlwini kokuthile -- akudingeki ibandla.' Isinyathelo sokuqala esinzima kakhulu.
- Jabulela sonke isimemo esenziwe nawo wonke umuntu owamukelayo -- kungakhathaliseki umphumela wokugcina. Inqubo ibalulekile.
Okwengeziwe
- Leitura: Ukuvangela Ngobudlelwano -- Joe Aldrich (isifingqo)
- Video: Uxoxa kanjani ngobufakazi bakho -- Mfu. Lamartine Posella